# One Small Step Can Change Your Life ![rw-book-cover](https://images-na.ssl-images-amazon.com/images/I/51gYm33r-XL._SL200_.jpg) ## Metadata - Author: [[Robert Maurer]] - Full Title: One Small Step Can Change Your Life - Category: #books ## Highlights - kaizen: using small steps to accomplish large goals. ([Location 35](https://readwise.io/to_kindle?action=open&asin=B00GU2RHCG&location=35)) - Simply standing from a sitting position doubles your metabolic rate. ([Location 51](https://readwise.io/to_kindle?action=open&asin=B00GU2RHCG&location=51)) - Kaizen is as much a philosophy or belief system as it is a strategy for success ([Location 92](https://readwise.io/to_kindle?action=open&asin=B00GU2RHCG&location=92)) - service and gratitude. ([Location 94](https://readwise.io/to_kindle?action=open&asin=B00GU2RHCG&location=94)) - lowering cost, increasing quality, and always—I repeat, always—in the service of the customer. 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