Another way of looking at finding [[The ONE Thing]] is to look for what makes you uncomfortable and find [[Notes on "Eat that frog!" | the ugliest frog]] and "eat it" first thing. This is harder in some ways to get yourself to do. But it's also very liberating. Because you know you faced your fear. Anything that comes after eating an ugly frog is better. [[The focusing question]] is about *"...such by doing that everything else gets easier"*. And sometimes, to make things easier, you've got to look and do the hard things first. - [[How to find the biggest frog]] - [[How to eat the biggest frog]]