up:: Tags:: #🌱 # Develop a thick core instead of a thick skin Stoicism seems to tout that you should develop a thick skin. Become impervious to what people say, negative emotions, and what happens to you. I think this is horrible advice. [[Negative emotions are often indicators you need to change]] and you should be attentive to how you are feeling. I say Instead you should develop a thick core. Ingrain a strong set of core values, strengthen your self concept, surround yourself with a support network. Don’t be afraid to reach out for emotional help **before** it becomes a problem. Related: [[It's better to deal with our fears and uncertainties before they grow into something worse]] ___ # Resources